I come from a long line of strong women. We face life’s challenges head on and acquire solutions, not a voice of complaint. At this time I am faced with a difficult journey. I thought I’d take you along with me for good company.
This past summer I tested positive for BRCA2, the breast cancer/ovarian cancer gene. Immediately the doctors advised me that a hysterectomy and a bilateral mastectomy needed to be my next step. “ABSOLUTELY NEVER!” was my response.
I hadn’t forgotten what my mother experienced. I hadn’t forgotten how this disease stole my sister’s life. I hadn’t forgotten why my brother, Shawn Gardner, and the rest of Team Heather work so hard each year to save lives. But, I also hadn’t forgotten how much I love the body God gave me. The Good Lord (and the world) knows I love my boobs! The next couple months left me throwing the idea around in my head. One day I will have to face breast cancer. One day I will have to be ill with the radiation/chemo treatments that stop or slow this disease. One day I may lose my life because I was too vain to think clearly about my future!
Then I heard Allyn Rose’s story. Allyn is this year’s Miss District of Columbia. She has an amazing story. She has a story that gave me the strength to sit down and speak to my husband about his thoughts on me going through with my doctors’ wishes. My husband wants to be a husband and not a widower. I have since contacted my doctor and will take a scary leap to save my life over the next few months.
It’s nice for you to join me on my journey.
That’s not a party favor. It’s BRCA2 at its best!
Please keep sharing! I am 32 and am facing this exact same decision. As a mother To 3 small children I am doing this for them. My mother passed away at 48, from ovarian cancer and I will not be in the same boat. I will be here for them. Thank you for sharing your story!
With a grateful heart,
Kelly Hageman
I would love to chat with you if you need advice OR a listening ear. I’m good at both. (ReneeDuddy@gmail.com) I’m so thankful you have found comfort in my blog.
As I have stated before, you are THE STRONGEST woman that I know. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, as I know it will inspire those who read it. You have always inspired me and you have been in my prayers since the day we meant, you and your family always will be.
I Love Ya lil’ Sis!
Sherry, I love you. Thanks for joining me on this journey. I’d like to tell you it’ll be great fun but I’d be telling you a big fat story. XO
Be Strong…Have Faith…God is watching over you…He will be with you every step.of the way…I know…Ive been there…He blessed me 4nd half years ago…i truley believe my mission now is to reach out…i will keep you in my prayers…please keep me posted
Thank you for your prayers and words of encouragement, Pam.